What is a leading?
One close Friend of ours, Alice, defines a leading as "a nudge, or a little tickle." Leadings can start to nudge us when we listen for divine guidance. Of course, this happens to people of all faith communities – and people who are nontheistic. Leadings can happen when we aren't seeking for them, maybe when we feel fairly comfortable with our lives as they are. Still, we can't shake a certain feeling.
One Friend in her 70s, who participated in the Listening Project, said: "I've found that when somebody takes a principled stand – especially a stand for justice – so often, they turn out to be Quaker." This Friend noted that the steps take courage, and they could be unusually public. That's another way to describe a leading: a step we take, or that we consider, which has an outward impact. Often it comes after several stages of discernment.
How do I know if it's really a leading?
Quakers say that a leading is tested by time and patience. It is tested by the wisdom of a group. If something feels urgent or self-important, it may not be a leading. As Friends from Iowa Yearly Meeting say: "Leadings are, if true, from the Lord God... and may push us and pull us into situations... that we could not have imagined, if left to our own devices." This is why following a leading, and taking faith-based action, is so deeply linked to the process of discernment.
Discernment and patience are important, because leadings can often be vague in the beginning. As Diego Navarro, former clerk of Pacific Yearly Meeting, said once in an interview: "Leadings are very small things. They start very small, and then they become clearer over time." For more basic information on leadings, we recommend visiting Philadelphia Yearly Meeting's website on
Concerns, Leadings and Testimonies.
What have you felt led to do lately? Which people in your life help you test this choice with collective wisdom?
This page was written by Johanna Jackson with input from two seasoned Friends.